{"id":12049,"date":"2021-09-07T11:25:40","date_gmt":"2021-09-07T16:25:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.diamondpet.com\/?p=12049"},"modified":"2026-02-17T10:08:04","modified_gmt":"2026-02-17T16:08:04","slug":"puppy-tug-play-aggression-myth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.diamondpet.com\/blog\/puppy\/training-puppy\/puppy-tug-play-aggression-myth\/","title":{"rendered":"Debarking Pet Myths: Does Teaching Puppies to Tug Cause Aggression?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Welcome to another installment of \u201cDebarking Pet Myths,\u201d our monthly series that addresses common myths, misconceptions and old wives\u2019 tales about dogs, cats and their nutrition.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>To tug or not to tug? This is a common question for parents of puppies who <em>really<\/em> want to play tug of war. That\u2019s because there\u2019s a belief out there that letting puppies play this game can cause aggressive behavior. Let\u2019s tug at this myth and see what unravels.<\/p>\n<h3>You\u2019re in Command of Tug of War<\/h3>\n<p>Playing tug of war is a fun game for you and your puppy to play, as long as you remain in control. You should be the one to start and end the game, not your puppy. You should also be able to stop the game immediately if you need to. This means that for your puppy to play tug of war, they should be trained in commands that can begin and end the game, including a release command that will cause your puppy to immediately drop the tug toy.<\/p>\n<p>While you should be in command of the game, dog trainers recommend that you let your puppy win. This will boost their confidence, get them excited to play again and let them satisfy their prey urges (the frenzied shaking your puppy does when they win the toy).<\/p>\n<h3>The Rules of Engagement<\/h3>\n<p>Before you start a game of tug of war, make sure you remove any harmful or breakable objects from the play area \u2014 puppies can be very boisterous! To begin the game, you should be the one to pick up the toy. It can be a chew rope, a towel tied in knots or a commercial tug toy. Say a command that lets your puppy know that it\u2019s play time (e.g., <em>tug<\/em> or <em>grab<\/em>) and that they are allowed to bite the other end of the rope. To end the game, use a release command like <em>drop<\/em> or <em>let go<\/em>.<\/p>\n<h3>The Benefits of Playing Tug<\/h3>\n<p>There are many benefits to playing tug of war with your puppy. It can be mentally and physically tiring, so it\u2019s a great way to release pent-up energy, particularly when the weather isn\u2019t great outside. It gives you and your puppy valuable bonding time as well. Just be careful when playing with puppies as they have baby teeth that can be damaged if you pull too hard. Let your puppy do all of the pulling and only play for a short time.<\/p>\n<h3>Appropriate Tug Play<\/h3>\n<p>As long as you and your puppy stick to the ground rules, playing tug of war shouldn\u2019t lead to aggressive behavior. However, if your puppy starts getting overstimulated, use the release command to end the game. You should also immediately end the game if your puppy misses the tug toy and accidentally bites at your skin or clothing, to show them that it\u2019s not OK.<\/p>\n<p>Playing tug of war can be a great way to burn off some of that endless energy your puppy has. Just make sure everyone follows the rules of play, and it will be a tugging good time for all.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-12052\" src=\"https:\/\/www.diamondpet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/playing-tug-of-war-does-not-teach-puppies-to-be-aggressive-090721.jpg\" alt=\"An interior graphic with text that reads, 'False \u2014 Debarking Pet Myths: Playing tug of war does not teach puppies to be aggressive'.\" width=\"2500\" height=\"578\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.diamondpet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/playing-tug-of-war-does-not-teach-puppies-to-be-aggressive-090721.jpg 2500w, https:\/\/www.diamondpet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/playing-tug-of-war-does-not-teach-puppies-to-be-aggressive-090721-300x69.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.diamondpet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/playing-tug-of-war-does-not-teach-puppies-to-be-aggressive-090721-1024x237.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.diamondpet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/playing-tug-of-war-does-not-teach-puppies-to-be-aggressive-090721-768x178.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.diamondpet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/playing-tug-of-war-does-not-teach-puppies-to-be-aggressive-090721-1536x355.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.diamondpet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/playing-tug-of-war-does-not-teach-puppies-to-be-aggressive-090721-2048x473.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2500px) 100vw, 2500px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>RELATED POST: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.diamondpet.com\/blog\/behavior\/psychology\/dogs-play-fighting\/\">Are My Dogs Play Fighting? Or Really Fighting?<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Welcome to another installment of \u201cDebarking Pet Myths,\u201d our monthly series that addresses common myths, misconceptions and old wives\u2019 tales about dogs, cats and their nutrition. To tug or not to tug? This is a common question for parents of puppies who really want to play tug of war. That\u2019s because there\u2019s a belief out [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":12051,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"Does Teaching Puppies to Tug Cause Aggression?","_seopress_titles_desc":"Have you ever wondered if teaching your pup to play tug can lead to aggressive behavior? 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